WHEN Mount Gambier woman Jane* chose to become a foster carer 25 years ago, she never imagined the path her life would take.
More than two decades later, Jane and her husband David have provided care for an estimated 100 children, have legal guardianship of two former foster children and currently care for four school-aged children.
Jane, who also has three biological children and nine grandchildren of her own, was inspired to provide foster care following a career in the child and disability sector.
“When we first started, there was not really the availability for children with disabilities to go into care, they needed to go into homes,” she said.
“They came home with me and from there we formalised foster caring.
“Our aim in life was to move to the South East from Adelaide to retire and we were only here a couple of months before we received our now eldest child.”
Jane said children with complex needs often required extra care, but enjoyed being able to provide them with the love and nurturing they need.
“We have a really good relationship with the children and do not have that many challenges,” she said.
“There are always going to be behaviours with children – even your biological children have behaviours – but that is just how it is.
“Some of these kids have been through heartbreaking circumstances.
“We have had kids that did not realise you had a Christmas tree in your house and that you actually get a birthday cake.
“It is not something you realise until you are in that situation and I do not think people realise how many kids like that are in Mount Gambier right now.”
Jane said while some days were chaotic with a number of school-aged children in the house, the reward for the hard work was immeasurable.
“It comes down to providing the kids with stability and giving them good memories,” she said.
“Sometimes the reward is just a smile and that makes everything worthwhile.
“There are a few obstacles but there is a lot more help out there now than what there was years ago.
“The department and the social workers are very helpful and we have great relationships with medical people and the schools.”
Child Protection Minister Rachel Sanderson said increasing the number of children and young people living in safe and secure homes was a priority for the State Government.
“Many of our carers dedicate their lives to looking after young people who have experienced hardship and neglect and offer love and support to children and young people who, for whatever reason, cannot be with their biological families,” Ms Sanderson said.
“Family-based care gives young people a sense of family and we know this form of care has the best outcomes for our most vulnerable children.”
For more information about becoming a foster carer visit www.childprotection.sa.gov.au/children-care/foster-care or contact 1300 2 FOSTER.
* Name changed for privacy reasons
